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Coping skill · 2 min

The three C's

You're lying awake wondering what you did wrong.

Do this

  1. Say it: I didn't Cause it.
  2. I can't Control it.
  3. I can't Cure it.
  4. Then ask: what is one thing I can do for myself today?

Why it works

Strong feelings and urges rise, peak and fall, usually within minutes. A skill gives your body something to do while the wave passes, and each time you ride one out, the next one gets a little easier.